by Linda Aragon
The physical is not a smooth environment. There are moments in every life that are disruptive. It is easy to become over involved with the dramas, and thus forgetting the relationship with one’s own soul. Realize that no matter what the circumstance your soul will seek the value of the experience. The most dire events can create the most growth. Take a look back and think about some of your most difficult challenges. Did they not offer substantial growth…lessons perhaps in boundaries, strength you didn’t know you had, compassion, separating out what’s really important, and so on. Attempt to find clarity and think through each day. Step back from the dramas and see what’s being presented. Stop for a moment and just breathe deeply. Find that calm place within, even if you feel the grip upon you is taking you out of control. Summon your innermost strength; center your energy with determination. You do have the power to change chaos to calm. Those that wish to partner with you in negativity will have to find someone else to exchange with.
You did not incarnate to fail. You came to this place to prosper and grow. Take a good look at your life. Are you fulfilled or perhaps just going through the motions to get through the day? Tasks before you were often pre-planned by you (Soul Contracts). It is important to appreciate the journey. Each moment offers choice that has the capacity to lead to happiness and harmony. Every decision, every thought, every error, has brought you to where you are today. Decide to look at it as a positive. You may well have a secret destination of which you are unaware. The times in life when things don’t work out, can be the most powerful. Try to embrace the experience with the attitude that they are opportunities to learn, grow, and evolve. Have you ever had an instance where the “challenge” resulted in your seeing things differently? That’s growth, that’s change. Take the awareness you have now as proof of the value of this walk through life. Give yourself a break. Like who you are, just as you are, and where you have evolved to. Use this opportunity for self-evaluation and as the saying goes, keep what you like and change what you don’t. Perhaps now is a good time to write out a new definition for your life. Make each step a positive approach to your own advancement. Who would you be if you were living your dreams?
- You are alive.
- You are here now.
- You have another day.
- That is a blessing.
Enjoy the everyday ordinary miracles that make up your life.
Linda Aragon, Holistic Life Coach